Pressure is unavoidable, but how you interpret it determines whether it sharpens your performance or drains your energy.

In Episode 2 of You Don’t Know Jack, Dr. Jack Groppel and Dr. Haley Perlus explore how early pressure influences, especially from parents and authority figures, shape the way we respond to expectations later in life.

Both Jack and Haley felt pressure from their fathers, but in very different ways. In this conversation, they unpack how those early experiences influenced confidence, motivation, self-belief, and performance under stress, and how you can learn to use pressure as fuel instead of letting it create distraction, anxiety, or doubt.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why pressure isn’t the enemy, it’s the invitation (says Haley)
  • How early pressure experiences shape your mindset today
  • The difference between pressure that sharpens focus vs. pressure that creates anxiety
  • How to identify your own pressure story
  • Practical ways to convert pressure into clarity, confidence, and performance

Whether you’re an athlete, leader, coach, or high performer, this episode will help you better understand your relationship with pressure, and how to work with it instead of against it.

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Dr. Haley Perlus

Dr. Haley Perlus, PhD

Dr. Haley Perlus works with some of the world’s top athletes, brands, and fitness experts to move past mental blocks and achieve results uniquely tailored to the individual or corporation’s goals and expectations. Follow her or subscribe to receive videos featuring Mental Toughness Moments.

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Haley Perlus is a Doctor of Performance Psychology, speaker, author and coach. She specializes in applying sport specific techniques to help athletes, business leaders, and high achievers optimize their mental game. To discuss consulting sessions, speaking appearances or media projects (including virtual sessions!), don’t hesitate to get in touch with Haley.

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