How to Talk to Your Coach or Boss | Playing Time, Favoritism & Trust

What can you actually learn from watching someone who is great at what they do?Whether it’s an elite athlete, coach, speaker, or leader, we often see the finished performance—but we miss the small behaviors and patterns that make that performance possible.In this episode of You Don’t Know Jack, Dr. Jack Groppel and Dr. Haley Perlus break performance down into four dimensions: physical, emotional, mental, and purpose.We explore how to become a more active observer by looking for the details: How do great performers move? How do they respond to mistakes? Where do they direct their attention? What patterns show up consistently? And what can their behavior under pressure reveal about who they are and what matters to them?One of Jack’s biggest lessons from decades of studying world-class performers:The greatest performers make simple unbelievably good.We also discuss emotional regulation, body language, focus, the power of the pause, purpose, coaching, and why the best performers never stop being students.Because getting better isn’t only about doing more.Sometimes it starts with learning how to watch.Subscribe for more conversations about performance, leadership, resilience, and what it takes to prepare for the hard things in sport, work, and life.Life is hard. Let’s prepare for it.To learn more about Dr. Jack Groppel: https://jackgroppel.net/To connect with Dr. Haley Perlus: https://drhaleyperlus.com/